Author Archives: Bong

She called me at 3:00 a.m.”My card declined at the club. Send me $2,000 right now or they won’t let us leave.” I replied,”Call your dad.”

She called me at 3:00 a.m.”My card declined at the club. Send me $2,000 right now or they won’t let us leave.” I replied,”Call your dad.” Then I turned off my phone and went back to sleep. The call I got from the police station the next morning. Let me get straight to it because […]

She dumped me with,”We’ll always be friends, though.” I replied,”Absolutely.” Weeks later, she found out friendship didn’t include rent money, emotional support, or car repairs, especially once I started dating her roommate.

She dumped me with,”We’ll always be friends, though.” I replied,”Absolutely.” Weeks later, she found out friendship didn’t include rent money, emotional support, or car repairs, especially once I started dating her roommate. The end of my 2-year relationship came on a Tuesday night. It wasn’t a shouting match or a dramatic, tear-filled fight. It was […]

During a family barbecue, she joked loud enough for everyone,”If we ever get married, he’ll be lucky if I don’t cheat.” I stayed quiet, but when my uncle pulled me aside later that night, his advice changed everything. My family has a tradition.

During a family barbecue, she joked loud enough for everyone,”If we ever get married, he’ll be lucky if I don’t cheat.” I stayed quiet, but when my uncle pulled me aside later that night, his advice changed everything. My family has a tradition. Every year on the last weekend of summer, we have a huge […]

During a work Zoom on her laptop, my girlfriend forgot to mute her mic. I heard her whisper,”God, I hope he doesn’t propose. How do you politely reject a man who pays your rent?”

During a work Zoom on her laptop, my girlfriend forgot to mute her mic. I heard her whisper,”God, I hope he doesn’t propose. How do you politely reject a man who pays your rent?” Her coworker said,”Just marry him, then divorce later.” They laughed. I just closed my screen. This morning, she woke up to […]

She posted a TikTok captioned”Dating down builds character” with me in the background. Her friends were commenting laughing emojis and”Girl, you’re so real for this.” I didn’t say a word, just packed my things and left that night.

She posted a TikTok captioned”Dating down builds character” with me in the background. Her friends were commenting laughing emojis and”Girl, you’re so real for this.” I didn’t say a word, just packed my things and left that night. Two weeks later, her best friend sent me a screenshot. She deleted every post and was asking […]

She said,”Stop acting like we’re married. You don’t get a say in where I go or who I’m with.” Everyone laughed.

She said,”Stop acting like we’re married. You don’t get a say in where I go or who I’m with.” Everyone laughed. I just smiled and stayed quiet, but when she came back from her weekend away, her tea didn’t work, and the neighbor told her exactly why. My girlfriend, Jessica, and I have a fundamental […]

At a wedding we attended, my wife danced with her male best friend all night while ignoring me. When someone asked if she was married, she said,”Not really. It doesn’t count when he’s boring.”

At a wedding we attended, my wife danced with her male best friend all night while ignoring me. When someone asked if she was married, she said,”Not really. It doesn’t count when he’s boring.” They laughed. I just watched. The next morning, she woke up alone. So, my marriage ended last Saturday night. There was […]

It happened on a Tuesday. I was in my home office wrapping up some work when a notification popped up on our shared tablet. It was a text message synced from my fiance Claire’s phone.

It happened on a Tuesday. I was in my home office wrapping up some work when a notification popped up on our shared tablet. It was a text message synced from my fiance Claire’s phone. We rarely use the tablet. It mostly just sat on the charger, but for some reason I glanced at it. […]

My fiance texted,”I’m staying at my ex’s for a few days to clear my head. Don’t make it weird.” I replied,”Take all the time you need.”

My fiance texted,”I’m staying at my ex’s for a few days to clear my head. Don’t make it weird.” I replied,”Take all the time you need.” Then sent her bags to her mom’s and disconnected her phone line, which I paid for. Four days later, she showed up to our building with her bags. The […]

My girlfriend declared,”I’m moving in with my male best friend for financial reasons.” without asking me first. I said,”That works out perfectly.”

My girlfriend declared,”I’m moving in with my male best friend for financial reasons.” without asking me first. I said,”That works out perfectly.” What I told her later that night made her pack in tears. There is a certain kind of quiet that settles in a home after a storm. It is not peace, not yet. […]